“Someone must see the family as worth fighting for, worth calling a career, worth the hard work of training a child in godliness, worth the relentless tasks involved in running a home…This ‘someone’ is the wife, the mother, and the homemaker and that, as such, she must embrace a life of being the giver. That’s our role as mothers.” ~Elizabeth George
In our crazy-busy lives we must be careful not to neglect this wonderful privilege. Our children grow up so fast ( Trust me on this! Three of my four children are grown and have left my nest! Who’s idea was that?!!!)
Dishes to wash and clothes to mend,
And always another meal to plan,
Never the tasks of a mother end
And Oh, so early her day began!
Floors to sweep and the pies to bake,
And chairs to dust and the beds to make.
Home, you say when the day is done,
Home to comfort and peace and rest.
Home where the children romp and run-
There is the place that you love the best!
Yet what would the home be like if you
Had all of its endless tasks to do?
Would it be home if she were not there,
Brave and gentle and fond and true?
Could you so fragrant a meal prepare?
Could you the numberless duties do?
What were the home that you love so much,
Lacking her presence and gracious touch?
She is the spirit of all that’s fair
She is the home you think you build:
She is the beauty you dream of there;
She is the laughter with which it’s filled-
She, with her love and her gentle smile,
Is all that maketh the home worth while.
One of the things I love about being a Queen Mother and homemaker, is blessing my family with rooms that say “welcome home!” I love to celebrate the seasons by decorating the nooks and crannies with fresh charm. In fact, when I am running a little behind, my kids will ask when I am going to get to my seasonal decorating. They love it!! It brings delight into the home, and anticipation for each holiday. God had a great idea when He created seasons. It changes the scenery! It gives us a fresh outlook on life. So I think we ought to do the same in our homes. Here is my bedroom with a touch of spring.
You don’t have to spend a lot of money to add beauty to your home. I got these brown Transferware plates on ebay for a song, and the flowers and pottery containers I got last week at Michaels Craft store at 50 % off! This mantle arrangement is nothing fancy, it’s simple. I usually make things symetrical because I just like the calm and peaceful feeling of order.
I love the saying “Beauty Inspires”. Because I think that is true. It motivates us to be creative and it also brings joy. The best way to start is to clear the clutter. Try taking your favorite things from one room and moving them to another room for a whole new look. Group similar things together instead of spacing them throughout, like a cluster of white creamers, or candlesticks, or a happy row of colorful bowls on a shelf.
The best kind of beauty in a home is a mothers loving touch. I say Hooray, with a cherry on top, for all the Queen Mothers out there, that are striving to do the hardest and most important job in the world…mothering and grandmothering your precious children.
“And let us not get tired of doing what is right, for after a while we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t get discouraged and give up.”
Galations 6:9
Your words of wisdom are always enlightning. Why do kids have to grow up? Geez!! :) I miss doting on mine terribly.
Your home is very lovely, thank you for sharing your photos!
teresa
What a beautiful home and charming blog. I really enjoyed your blog, just found it and hope you don’t mind if I add you to my blogroll. And welcome to Missouri by the way!! I dream of warmer climates, but my heart will always belong to the ever changing seasons of Missouri.
Always a fun, breezy read filled with inspiration.
Just love your bedroom with the fireplace blazing and the mantel so beautifully decorated.
No pie recipe today? I’m shocked…
Have a great week, Ruthann.
I love your blog so much and look for it each day–please post just anything more often.
Thank you!
Loved the read today…so true about being a mum and making the family home a safe haven..
Have a lovely week..
luv Ann.xx
I’m been coming to you blog for sometime and was about to give up that you were not going to update it. I’m so glad you decided to update and was pleasantly surprised this morning.
What a lovely and timely post…and such wise words! I can honestly say that I have had much more fulfillment and ‘job’ satisfaction as a SAH-Homeschool Mom than I ever had with my previous ‘career’ in public and private education. And we only get one chance to be with our children…to love them, train them, and bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. A mother makes such a difference in the lives of her children. After our relationship with Christ, our husbands, children, and homes should certainly be our first priorities. Thank you, Ruthann, for this wonderful post!
Blessings,
Amy O.
You always have the most imspiring and encouraging words! I love “The Spirit of the Home” poem. Your bedroom is so lovely! I love, love, love the mantle arrangement. I am a sucker for brown transferware!
I just found your blog and it’s beautiful and inspiring!
I’ve got it bookmarked :)
Oh my goodness, your bedroom is absolutely beautiful and as always your posts are food for my soul. Hope you are having a wonderfully
beautiful day! Whoops, it sent for some reason before I finished :)
I appreciate the idea that our children leave too soon. I was not anxious to push mine out. Like many families, we thought we would be adding wings on all sides of the house for their future families.
What a lovely post. I love your blog!
Oh how I loved this post!
I am a mother of three darling birds. One day one of them flew away and found a mate. They bring littlier darling when they fly home for a visit. Life is good!
We didn’t add on a wing to our house, but we did buy the property right next door, we named it “The West Wing”. Our daughter and her hubby made their nest there. ;o)
Blessings, Paula
…and again you’ve enlightened, motivated, and inspired!
How true the kids grow up too fast. My three have flown the nest and although I miss them the “empty nest” syndrome is not all that bad! I’m have wonderful times with my husband and we have so much fun when all the kids come home. Gal. 6:9 has been one of our family’s favorites…as my husband likes to paraphrase it…”just do it”!
Blessings!
Patti
Great post. I so enjoyed it.
Oh Ruthann, what a treat it is to come to your blog! I always hate leaving but leave a better person and ALWAYS uplifted! I love your new pictures. Family is very important to me to. Now being a Grandmother to 11 “sweet as pie” Grandchildren, life is full and blessed! Thanks for all you do to make this world a better place to come home to! The pie was yummy as usual! Hugs, Maryjane
I didn’t see an email address for you, so I’ll just ask my question here. Did you happen to be at the Jim Bakker show last week? There was a gal in the audience that looked just like you! Thanks for sharing the beautiful pictures of your home and especially the inspiring articles on homemaking. Have a blessed day!
Pam R.
Hi Pam, Yes! that was me!! Wow you have a good eye! The show is only 25 minutes away and we watch it all the time on TV, so we decided to go last week. Lori Bakker is a sweet friend of mine, she is a doll! And little Miss Dottie Rambo is adorable! If you would like to leave me your email address I will be happy to email you back if you have any more questions. Hugs!
Ruthann
Nice to be encouraged in the important job of nurturing our families.
oh ruthann, thank you for the reminder to try my hardest at this job i love!!
i agree with the previous poster, i come to your blog daily and re-read your posts until the next arrives. they make me so happy. if possible, i would love to see your wisdom more often
What an inspirational post…thank you, Ruthann!
Your home is so beautiful…thank you for sharing it with us!!!
Hi Ruthann,
Your blog is so warm and welcoming! I can see that you share such wonderful creative talent with your sister. Your mantle is just lovely. And the pies you make look DELISH!
Smiles,
Heather
i always leave your blog open after i read the contents because i love the music! thanks, suesue
Hi Ruthann… I knew from your blog that you were close to the show. What a blessing to be a dear friend of Lori Bakker! She seems so warm and real… I just know I would love her. I sure do love the show and the way that Jim teaches the bible. Please do email me at pmrich81@aol.com Thanks!
Thank you for the reminder! Seriously… I need a nudge in the right direction sometimes…
Seeing their smiling faces makes it all worth while in the end…
Have a great weekend!
XO
Ruthann,
Mothers are mighty important…God knew they were going to have a very important job making a home so He gave them a little something extra special….that nesting instinct…to make a house a home..warm and comforting…..
Southern sister, you write a mighty good post…I’ll have another piece of that pie!……Betty
Your bedroom is just as beautiful as the rest of your home. What a wonderful post about mothers :)
rue
RuthAnn, I am also from the Ozarks. My mother grew up in Ozark. I was born in West Plains and grew up in El Dorado Springs. I now live in Virginia (just a jump across the river from Washington DC). When I get homesick (which is every day)I visit your blog.
My blog is called ‘hillbillydebutante.blogspot.com. However, I’m having a problem uploading pictures, so I only have two postings. In a week or so that problem should be solved and hopefully you’ll visit my blog.
Kathie T
aka Hillbilly Debutante
Hello there! I just found your beautiful blog….so inspiring and so lovely…what a blessing to me!
Love, Tina :)
Happy Mother’s Day Ruthann! What a precious blog today – really enjoyed it (as always!!)
Karla & Karrie
Love your blog! The plates are so cute and you can still serve warm pie on them! Love your sofa in your bedroom.
Whoa, I love your fireplace and the brown transferware is so pretty on it. My kids love when I decorate too. Even my dh over the years if I forget to put something up or put it in a different spot seems to notice.
Whoa, I love your fireplace and the brown transferware is so pretty on it. My kids love when I decorate too. Even my dh over the years if I forget to put something up or put it in a different spot seems to notice.
Loved your blog this week!! Being a mother is the greatest privilege in the world. My own mother passed away when i was 12 so I didn’t have the good fortune to have been “mothered” most of my life, but being a mommy is the best gift God could have ever given…and he has made me the Queen of my home as well, being the only female.
Thank you for the fun photos and inspiring message.
KAREN EILEEN
Hello,
What a beautiful blog you have!
I really enjoyed reading your posts. So much wisdom…I will come back again!
Warm regards,
Gabriela
Lovely post!! Your rooms are beautiful!! Just lovely!! Have a wonderful evening!
blessings,
kari & kijsa
HI there :)
You have a beautiful home and lovely blog. Its for sure of my favorites.
God bless,
Candy from Canada
I love to read your blog, the pictures of your home are stunning. Thankyou for such an inspirational post.
Sarah in England xxx
Yummy post! I love your brown transferware! I am going to Michales tomorrow to see if I can find some deals too.
You have a beautiful home!
Wow Ruthann! That’s one gorgeous bedroom you have there! You truly are a blessed woman. And what a kind-hearted person you are for letting us into your home and sharing your wisdom with us.
Many thanks, Emma
Hi-and wow! I LOVE the look of your website!! When I’m cleaning I always put big band music on, it’s so cheery, and looking at these vintage photos, reading the inspiring words…thank you!! Just the kind of site I love to visit.
Hello there. Just found you and am already inspired. I like your style, your sentiments, and all your home cooking!
I’m a first time visitor. Your blog is refreshing and lovely. Nice to meet you!
I love you blog! You are in favor of what I am that we be the women that the Bible speaks of. Not many women aspire to be that these days. Society doesn’t emphasis it as it used to. Blessings on you and your home and your ministry that you have on your blog! Keep the new posts coming I enjoy them very much!
Hi Ruthann {Dolly},
your blog is beautiful and your words are inspirational!
Thank you for visiting my blog,
Come back anytime!
Warm Hugz, Dolly
Ruthann, I tried to read through all of your posts to make sure you haven’t already mentioned this- what is the name of the paint color on your walls? It is such a yummy gold color. Can you email me? karin4467@yahoo.com Thanks!
What version do you quote on Galatians 6:9?