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Warm Pie Happy Home

Thanksgiving Pie

Written by Aunt Ruthie on November 21st, 2014


Winner Winner Chicken Dinner! Hooray!

The winner of my give-away from my last blog post has been randomly selected!

Congratulations  to Yochannah!


Yochannah, I know you’re really going to enjoy the little piggy cutting board, the Farm Fresh Recipes Cookbook and the gorgeous measuring spoons from Anthropology!

I want to thank all of you dear Sugar Pies who entered the giveaway for sharing such sweet and loving sentiments and for telling me what it is about Sugar Pie Farmhouse that keeps you coming back. It was such a blessing for me to read each and every one of them!! Y’all are gifted with the gift of encouragement! I’m so very thankful for you! In fact whenever I’m having a difficult day I’m going to go back and read them all again! Here was Yochannah’s sweet comment:


Dear Aunt Ruthie.

I found your blog a few years back, while looking for pretty fall pictures.
I just fell in love with your “Fall Home Tour.” Left that page up for days on my computer, just looking and looking and reading and reading.
I adore the encouragement for homemakers; the vintage home making, the words on creating a happy home, the tips and encouragement for creating the life we want to live, and the decorating.
The year I found your blog, I, for the first time ever(*blush!~) decided to “create” a happier home, and “cozy nest” for my family for all. I scrubbed and cleaned and sorted; and wonder of wonders,…I decorated! I don’t have a “knack” for those kinds of things. And, I baked; yummy fall goodies. At least three times a week. My family felt loved and spoiled and that made all of it worth it. I love every minute of it!( I’ve never seen apple fritters disappear so fast in my Life! They didn’t even let them Cool!! I’d turn to let it drain on the cardboard, and there would be a proffered plate, with a big grinning face at the end of the arms holding it.)
I “forced” all the kids, ages 46(me!) to 6, to cut out and color leaves; then we added glitter or other stuff and strung ‘em and hung ‘em!
It’s been a couple of years, and they still talk about it.
This year, for the first time in my whole life, we went to a pumpkin patch.
Before I found your blog, I was sure that keeping the house “plain“- free of nick-knacks and almost any decoration, was keeping it clean and easy. That might have been somewhat true, but it was also sterile and very Un-Homey!! My kids are constantly commenting on the changes, and saying they wished we’d done it sooner!- and they are coming up with ideas on their own now!(I can see them planning for their future homes already!)

So, Dear Aunt Ruthie,- thank you. Thank you for putting your words, and pictures, and guiding how-to’s and encouragement out there on the web. Thank you for showing me I CAN bless my family; and thank you for the glow of light and warmth I see in my children’s eyes.
I love the changes in my home, and family.
Thank you, Aunt Ruthie- for being an “Aunt Ruthie” to us all.

many blessings to you and yours,

Thank you darlin’!

How wonderful to see

what a blessing you are to your family!

This is the goal of my blog!

To put the “sweet” back in Home Sweet Home

so our families will have love-filled memories

that they will cherish for a lifetime!! 

1940sChristmasFamilyFeast[1]Well, can you believe Thanksgiving is just a few days away! It’s that time to begin preparing for that special day and to think about all of the many blessings God has so richly given us. A long time ago I heard someone use the term “Thanks-living”, I don’t know who it was, but it rung a bell in my heart. That’s how I want to live every day, being thankful. I know for sure that is one of the keys to filling our life with joy.


But there are those days, those disappointments and heartbreaks that happen and somehow we forget to be thankful because we are so focused on what’s wrong instead of what’s right. I’ve been there, but I’ll tell you what! I know better now. When I begin to struggle with something that hurts my heart I “nip it in the bud” like Barney Fife would say! I set my mind to become proactive and intentional about guarding my heart.

Here’s what I do:

1. I renew (restore, freshen, reaffirm) my mind with God’s Word (Romans 12:2) I do this by reading His promises for strength and comfort. I also listen to sermons that remind me that Jesus is with me and with Him I have victory over any problem.

2. Count my blessings!  I look around me and take stock of all of the blessings I’ve been given for which I’m thankful for.

3. Replace any negative thinking with positive healthy thoughts (God’s Word and His goodness toward me). So I’ve made a decision not allow myself to dwell on disappointments and hurtful things people do and say. AND it’s a big “no-no” to allow myself to complain. If I start to, I “nip it!”. It is so hard, but that’s where prayer comes in, we have to ask for God’s strength to move passed difficult situations.

4. Sing praise and worship music. I’ll put on uplifting gospel music which always soothes my soul and gives me the strength to move forward and stop looking back. This is one of my favorite collections of worship music.

5. Think of someone who could use some encouragement. When we are helping others we aren’t so focused on our own worries.

That’s how I “Nip it, Nip it in the bud” I tell ya! I just don’t think we can have joy or be happy if we dwell on the negative, and live in constant complaining mode. Look what happened to the Israelites…what should have only taken them 11 days to enter the Promised Land took 40 years! They didn’t trust God and they lived in complaining mode. Joyce Meyers said “If you complain, you remain.”


It’s amazing how God’s Word can calm our heart. I love Psalm 94:19… “In the multitude of my anxious thoughts within me, Your comforts cheer and delight my soul!”. Wow! I would venture to say that all of us have anxious thoughts…things we’ve worried about…things that makes our heart hurt. But oh my darlin’s! God is here…and in the sweetest most endearing things His comforts cheer and delight our soul if we just look for them! Let’s open our eyes, smell with our nose, listen with our ears the blessings that God and placed all around us.  Let us be quick to thank Him!


Have you ever thought of the aroma of a Thanksgiving turkey roasting in the oven, or the warmth of a crackling fire or the familiar ticking of the clock at grandma’s house as one of God’s comforts that “cheer and delight our soul”? Or the words spoken with excitement “Time to eat!”…hands held around the table and grace being said…that first bite of mom’s savory stuffing and then Auntie’s creamy pumpkin pie?  Comfort. Cheer. Delight.


How about the time spent with loved ones, good conversation shared over a hot cup of coffee and fresh baked cookies on a crisp blustery day, where  smiles and laughter warm and revive your heart?  Or cozy slippers… a cuddly hug from a child… Christmas music…  falling leaves twirling in a gust of wind as they fall from the sky. How about stopping to really take in the precious view of your family gathered around the dinner table…the smell of the furnace turning on to warm the house on early frosty mornings…these are God’s comforts to “cheer and delight your soul”. These are the things to be thankful for. Thank you Lord!

one thousand gifts If you haven’t read One Thousand Gifts by Ann VosKamp Oh. My. Goodness! I highly recommend that you do. It ‘s the perfect time to start. To wrap your heart and mind around the concept of “Thanks-living”. It will change your life. You will find joy…the kind of joy that the Bible speaks of…”Joy unspeakable and full of Glory!” (1 Peter 1:7-9). This book will inspire you to hope again. If your heart hungers for joy, this book is a delicious feast for the soul.



I think that life is a lot like pie. What we fill it with will determine how sweet and enjoyable it will be for others and ourselves. What we fill it with determines the course of our life.


Proverbs 4:23 says “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Our thoughts, the words that we speak, our actions and our choices are the ingredients that we stir into our heart and life. Bitterness, ungratefulness, anger, resentment,  and unforgiveness will make a sour and unhappy life. Think of it this way, we wouldn’t put rotten fruit or contaminated ingredients (ew!) into a pie we’re baking, so why would we allow detrimental, unhealthy thinking into our life? We’ve got to “nip it in the bud”! Can I get an “Amen” or a “YEE HAW”?


When we fill our heart with the Love of God, His Word, and His will, our life will be filled with His goodness, joy, and peace. When we walk daily in thankfulness and we fully realize how much the Lord loves us and has an abundant life planned for us, it changes everything. “Taste and see that the LORD is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in him!” -Psalm 34:8

“But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives:

love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

There is no law against these things!” –Galatians 5:22-23 NLT

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Following Jesus and being thankful to Him, makes for a sweeter, joyful life…but the key is, we must trust and obey His Word and walk in faith. It doesn’t mean we won’t have troubles that come our way. We will have trials because we live in a fallen world. But Jesus said ““I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”  -John 16:33

We also have this promise to rely on;  “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28

Just like the pumpkin pie pictured above, it had to go into a hot oven to become the thing  for which it was created to be. Something sweet and delightful to be shared graciously with others.

“So be truly glad. There is wonderful joy ahead, even though you must endure many trials for a little while.  These trials will show that your faith is genuine. It is being tested as fire tests and purifies gold—though your faith is far more precious than mere gold. So when your faith remains strong through many trials, it will bring you much praise and glory and honor on the day when Jesus Christ is revealed to the whole world.” 1 Peter 1:6-7

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Pie. It’s comforting, yummy, heartwarming, and filled with sweet memories. The word “pie” speaks of home, hospitality, and graciousness.  The best kind of pie is filled with fresh, quality ingredients along with time, attention and love. The result is a delicious, party-in-your-mouth, slice of heaven to be shared with others. Just like a pie, life is what you put into it.

“Enter His gates with thanksgiving;
    go into His courts with praise.
    Give thanks to Him and praise His name.”

Psalm 100:4


 I want so much for my life to become something sweet and delightful to share graciously with others. I know you want that too. So we must be intentional every day to guard our heart and to fill it with the goodness of The Lord; thankfulness, kindness, patience, faithfulness, forgiveness and love through the power of The Holy Spirit.

Thank you darlin’ for stopping by for some Thanksgiving pie!

If you’d like the recipe for the pumpkin pie above,

it’s on the back of the Libby’s canned Pumpkin  or click here.

Have a blessed and wonderful Thanksgiving!

Aunt Ruthie

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Warm Pie Happy Home

5 Reasons Why Fun Family Traditions are so Important! And a Give-Away!

Written by Aunt Ruthie on November 3rd, 2014

family traditions3Howdy Sugar Pie! I’m so happy you’re here! How is your fall season going? I hope you’re breathing in the delight and sweetness of this golden time of year…it’s so good for you, ya know! Our lives are so busy, filled with challenges and struggles. That’s why it’s so it’s important to stop and “smell those roses” or watch the leaves fall, or meet a friend for coffee .  Recently our family spent the afternoon at the pumpkin patch. This is one tradition that we have been doing since my kids were babies.

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I do believe that Fun Family Traditions is the glue that holds families together (among a few other things of course!). Spending time together makes life meaningful and so much richer. The thing is, we have to be intentional about this because it’s so easy to say “I’m too tired”, or “I need to clean out the garage this weekend”. Sometimes we procrastinate by saying “maybe next week”. Only, next week may not work out. Someone once said “Opportunities are not postponed, they are lost forever.”  So even though we have an overflowing to-do list, we must make time for some good old fashioned family fun!

thanksgiving in the kitchen2As the holidays approach, be thinking about one or two things you can do with your family that will make joy-bells ring in their hearts! Family traditions can be things you do daily, weekly, and seasonally. Daily traditions could be something as simple as bedtime prayers with the family or having supper together. Weekly traditions could include a family fun night with pizza or pancakes on Saturday mornings.  Seasonally, your traditions might include picking out a Christmas tree together or a taking a drive to see Christmas lights then stopping to get hot chocolate. In the spring an Easter Egg Hunt or planting a garden. In the summer, a trip to the beach or gathering together for a family reunion . And in the fall, a drive in the country to see the fall color, baking a pumpkin pie or a taking a trip to the apple orchard. The wonderful thing is you get to decide what it is that you want to plan in order to create those fun moments with your family.

Here are 5 Reasons Why Fun Family Traditions are so Important:

1. Fun Family Traditions give our family a sense of belonging, security and togetherness: We all need to feel valued, wanted and loved.  What better way to communicate those heartfelt feelings to our family than to spend time together! Fun Family Traditions can provide warmth, compassion and closeness, an important key to becoming a happy family.

2. They give our children a better and happier childhood:  Studies show that children who experience even the simple tradition of eating together as a family are less likely to smoke, drink, get into drugs and other damaging behaviors.  Additionally, 40% of children who eat supper together with the family do better in school. Kids thrive as a result of happy family traditions. Creating a family life that feels safe and provides stability is crucial to the well-being of our children.  It’s a comfort for our kids to know that they can count on those special things that we do together because “that’s our family tradition”.

3. They bring anticipation and joy by giving us something to look forward to: Fun Family Traditions teach our children the value of enjoying the simple pleasures of having fun together, whether it’s going for a hike in the woods, enjoying an ice-cream cone together or collecting seashells at the beach. Life is filled with challenges and struggles so having happy traditions to look forward to adds the much needed ingredient of joy into our lives.

4. They help to preserve the family by building strong relationships and valuable bonding moments: It’s not just the activity that we choose to do with our family that’s important it’s also the connection and heartfelt communication that happens. It’s an investment of time and love that will affect future generations.

5. They create warm memories that will last a lifetime:  Commemorating family moments like birthdays, holidays, vacations, and everyday joys will not only make our family members feel cherished but it will be a huge part of our family’s life story…a story that will remembered with warmth and laughter…a story that will gleam as a treasure in our hearts. A story that will provide joy and comfort for our whole life. One way to keep those memories fresh is to take lots of photos and videos!

One last thought…in finding the right Fun Family Traditions for your family, keep in mind that the key word is “fun”.


Well, one of my family’s fall traditions is going to the pumpkin patch. We headed out to McKenna’s Farm here in Branson, Missouri, on a chilly and misty day. It had just rained so everything was saturated with the vivid hues of fall. This snug cabin pictured above sits beautifully behind the cornfield. It looked like it belonged to The Three Bears! Mama Bear’s hot porridge would have been welcomed on a cold, damp, day like this!


Here I am with my beloved hubby and my four lovable grand-littles! I’m holding Zealand, Grandpa’s holding Polly June, Johnny’s making a silly face and Kade is wearing his yellow rain boots! So much fun!

“Tradition gives us a sense of solidarity and roots,

a knowing there are some things one can count on.”

~Gloria Gaither


My daughter Ashley’s family…hubby Glen, Polly June and Johnny!


My son Dusty’s family…Kimmy, Zealand and Kade!


And…my darlin’ Summer Rose!


Zealand found himself a great big pumpkin!



sweet pollyMy little “punkin” Polly sitting on a pile of pumpkins!

She’s wearing the same sweater that her mama wore when she was a youngin’!


This year McKenna’s farm had this huge air trampoline on top of the ground! The grown-ups had a blast but the little ones had to warm up to the idea.

IMG_7149Johnny and Kade got to pump water for a rubber ducky race.

IMG_7409Time for a hayride!


All aboard!!

Our driver had his Duck Dynasty goin’ on!

hayride 2014Since it was just us on the hayride, we had our own sing-along…”Old MacDonald Had a Farm…E-I-E-I-O!”

“What will your children remember?

Moments spent listening, talking, playing, and sharing together

may be the most important times of all.” -Gloria Gaither


“Happy times and bygone days are never lost…In truth,

they grow more wonderful within the heart that keeps them.”

-Kay Andrew


Kimmy, Zealand and I.

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Got me boots on!

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“When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses.” -Joyce Brothers


Hey! Who’s throwin’ hay? Well, it is a hayride!

“If we savor the good times in youth,

we can enjoy them again in old age.” -Janette Oke


My kids…posing Hillbilly-style…looks like this could be on the cover of a bluegrass music album. Ha!

IMG_7410In this shot I asked them to just act “normal”…uh, yeah…

I guess goofy is normal.


My daughter Summer is outstanding in her field! ;D

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Fun in the corn-box!

“You have to look for the joy.

Look for the light of God that is hitting your life,

and you will find sparkles you didn’t know were there.”

-Barbara Johnson

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The day was so damp and chilly we pretty much had the place to ourselves!

I love that girl!


Now that’s a pig-pen!

Did your mama ever tell you to go clean your bedroom because it looked like a pigpen? I don’t think my room ever looked that bad! LOL!


Little Kade climbing rocks with his yellow boots!



Oh how thankful I am to the Lord for His Grace.

“No nation can be destroyed while it possesses a good home life.” -Josiah Gilbert Holland


It was good to get out of the damp, chilly air and into the cozy warmth of home!

My sweet grand-little’s favorite place to play is in Grammy’s pantry!

These are memories and traditions in the making!

There’s no place like home…except Grammy and Grandpa’s! 

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Guess what?!! I’m having a give-away! I’m celebrating the birthday of my blog! It’s 7 years old! Wow! My baby girl Summer Rose was in 4th grade when I started now she’s in 10th! Time flies when you’re having fun!! Well, darlin’s I think this give-away is a doozy! They’re three of my favorite things!


Here are the three prizes for one happy gal!

1. A fabulous new cookbook: Farm Fresh Recipes from the Missing Goat Farm! Oh! My! I love this cookbook!  It’s filled with full color photos of wonderful and yummy recipes for soups, breads, pies, snacks and preserves. The author, Heather Cameron always dreamed of moving to a farm, then one day she and her family left the city and made their farm dreams come true! Heather has so delightfully sprinkled her story into the pages of this charming collection of farm-to-table recipes.

2. The cutest wooden piggy cutting board–it’s brand new but made to look vintage. AND it’s made in America! I have this same one and I love it! It just makes chopping herbs, fruits and veggies so much more fun!

3. A gorgeous set of measuring spoons from Anthropology! They look like vintage teaspoons! I just know these would help you make a pretty pie!

IMG_2622 Here’s a closer look! Ain’t they purdy?

So here’s the thing…since I’ve been blogging for 7 years and plan to continue, (because I love blogging and you!) I want to make sure that what I am blogging about brings you value and is worthy of your time. So I need your help in answering a couple questions. Please know that your input is so very valuable to me! Once you answer these questions in the comment section below, I will pick one name at random to win the give-away prize! The deadline will be November 20th. I will announce the winner in my next blog post.

Here are my questions:

1. What attracts you to Sugar Pie Farmhouse and keeps you coming back?

2. What would you like to see more of on my blog?

  • More encouragement for homemakers?
  • More decorating Ideas?
  • More ideas on how to incorporate vintage (back-in-the-day) homemaking into our lives?
  • More Recipes?
  • How to create a happy home?
  • Chats to inspire you to create the life you want to live?
  • Or, what topic would you love for me to write about?

That’s it! Just tell me what you like and what you would like more of! Please don’t feel like you need to answer at great length (unless you want to!) Short and sweet is just fine!


I do want to thank you dear Sugar Pies for purchasing my videos! I hope you enjoyed them (I’d love to know!). If you haven’t gotten yours yet there’s still time! I know many of you are probably in Christmas mode by now, but the ideas in the Let’s Decorate for Fall Y’all videos are perfect for Thanksgiving and that’s 3 weeks away! You can click here to check it out or go to the General Store above.


And of course the recipes in Sweet Fall Fixin’s are also perfect for Thanksgiving and Christmas for that matter!

Thank you so much Sugar Pie for stopping by!

Please enter the give-away by answering those questions above!

I’m sending you lots of sugar-hugs and love!

Aunt Ruthie

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